why can't I hear you?

I've been trying to understand my fear, or at the very least, inability to relax, with you, and it is partly the very positive fact that I feel like you can read me well, and therefore keep me on my feet, and partly the rather terrifying possibility that we are just simply not on the same page. That is terrifying because I respect your opinion, even if I can't understand it, and because I care, and want to maintain our relationship, but fear that we are just incompatible. I don't believe that we are, but I fear it nonetheless.